Blog post 'Bleugh!'
Bleugh!
- Published: 485 days ago
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Just decided to share that I'm sick of being used by people. 
I think I've had more than sufficient of being handy when you can get something out of me. I hate dishonesty and think that kind of behaviour is as dishonest as it gets. Time for a life shake up
I think I've had more than sufficient of being handy when you can get something out of me. I hate dishonesty and think that kind of behaviour is as dishonest as it gets. Time for a life shake up -
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TRIG x 100,000,000 girlie!!!
I do not buy into the Give To Get philosophy. Why? Because in this world you give because you want to without expectation. You should feel it deeply inside of you and you will always wake up happy knowing you did your best. Giving to Get was a big issue with a certain friend of mine who has a potential reach in his personal network of 1.4MM people and the guy always gets discouraged. I told him to stop writing your tag line Give To Get. This is a death sentence for the soul, man.
Since you posted your feelings here publicly I will post my advice. Let go of the people idea. Decide why you're here and focus on that. Everyone and everything will find you if you're findable and that my friend is the truth.
When you focus on the why the how to's will present themselves. Again true.
Am I an authority on this? Yes. I spent four years dealing with building a multi-million dollar web-site to change the world. I got the site built for free. I had been a member of so many high profile business and social networking groups and had all these people who subscribed to my newsletter. When the time came for them to sign up and contribute and participate they didn't. Agian and again and again I appealed to them and they didn't, but every single one of them read my newsletter and you know what? I even wrote them all a mass emailing telling them if they don't want to participate then cancel their newsletter and we'll still be friends and no hard feelings. Guess what? Nobody unsubscribed and they still didn't sign up for the site to contribute.
After four years and 15 hours a day I can tell you my friend that out of all those people I have one true friend. That's it. That's all.
Am I angry? At first yes as long as I held on to the idea that it would work. But one day I just decided to shut it all down. Guess what? I got more email from that than at anytime in my life.
And all positive and encouraging etc.
So the bottom line is my example here on Trig. I am here to help like a Reality Therapist when I see the opportunity like this one of yours. I figured out why I am here and I tell people tirelessly to Trig My Friends and started a Person of the Day and Feature a Band of the Day. That's it and that's all.
In all honesty I have been lucky to have made a friend recently and I can see that we will be writing all the time to each other because it just clicks.
So I know this was long. Been there. Done that. Decide why you're here. Decide what you want to do and do your best. If your lucky you will walk away from all this with one true friend. Imagine there are so many who can't say that.
All the best,
/the ViBe
Hope whatever made you growl has now been resolved.
I hate it & love it, but will never go over the edge again and let me be more used then i want to!
Extremly warm & cosy hugs from me to you!
Humans are stupid.
jord