Leah

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29 year old Female from Indianapolis, Indiana, United States. 367 friends

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Blog post 'Well, im here....'

Well, im here....

  • Published: 219 days ago
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Guess I can update.  Although no one really looks at this anymore.  I went back to myspace for the most part.  Most of my friends are on there and the same people that I was escaping on Myspace have made their way over to trig.  It seems just as trendy and the people are just as fake.

Anyway,  Im still at the same job, working with juvenile delinquents that dont care.  I got moved to the "faith based" unit.  Which for me...not believing in god....was hilarious.

I feel like my life isnt where i thought it would be at 28.  I thought I would be married and I would have this great career and I would have friends that we would hang out with on the weekend and we would do "grown up" stuff.  We would have cook outs and go to dinner and go to "grown up" places.  Now i sit at home, dont really hang out with anyone but paul.  I like being at home, its just not how i thought my life at this age would be.  All in all im happy.  Im still madly in love with paul and i still like work.

Hope everyone out there in trig land is well.
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  1. masika
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    when I get back you should join Matt, myself and some friends for our "group dinners"  We usually have at the minimum 5 people and we go out on a Friday or Saturday night to dinner together picking a different restaurant each time.
  2. Astraea
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    If you didn't live so far from me, we could totally do the "grown-up thing". There is a HUGE part of me that wants that so bad, but with my work schedule and everything else right now, I spend most of my free time sitting at home, watching DVDs.

    Anyway, I'm with you about not feeling like I am where I thought I would be right now. We've talked about this before. I wonder if this is a generational thing. I don't know anyone who feels like they are where they thought they would be. Ten years ago, I thought I would be mostly through med school by this point, perhaps happily married. Right now, I am eight months pregnant, living in a crappy apartment, and working a shit job until I "make it big" as a writer.

    Yet...

    I'm happy. And I think that might be the biggest unexpected thing about it all.