Blog post 'Are some people are meant to be alone?'
Are some people are meant to be alone?
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There are many statements that peple make about how they are meant to be alone and that they are OK with that. They are all manifestos. People speak the "relationships are not for me" idea into being. They make it "manifest". They talk themselves into it.
It's like a disease. Many mental diseases are fear-based and this one is no different. For whatever reason people need to develop a more robust character. I'm certainly not going to contribute to the fog of blind validation of such thinking.
There's nothing wrong with being alone for a time, but there is something wrong with programing yourself to exclude the possibility of being with someone.
When you experience failure in life of any sort, you can either learn from it (adapt) and profit, or you can use it as a trajectory and be a passenger to that. Being a passenger is certainly easier - but it brings no joy. There is a useful abuse of a useless truism that says "YOU WIN SOME, YOU LEARN SOME".
It's like a disease. Many mental diseases are fear-based and this one is no different. For whatever reason people need to develop a more robust character. I'm certainly not going to contribute to the fog of blind validation of such thinking.
There's nothing wrong with being alone for a time, but there is something wrong with programing yourself to exclude the possibility of being with someone.
When you experience failure in life of any sort, you can either learn from it (adapt) and profit, or you can use it as a trajectory and be a passenger to that. Being a passenger is certainly easier - but it brings no joy. There is a useful abuse of a useless truism that says "YOU WIN SOME, YOU LEARN SOME".
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