LLgemini

Without pain and suffering i think love wouldn't mean a thing.  I read a blog about how love is painful and the truth is yes it is painful but then love wouldn't be that much more sweeter when it does go right.  When you are with someone it isn't always peachy and fun.  Life and money tend to get in the way but when you truly love someone who treats you right and you back at them all the petty shit doesn't really matter.  I told my husband if we lived in a cardboard box i would love him no different and i meant everyword.  I'm here to encourage and grow as a person as well as ecourage him to help him grow. that is what love is about for me.  To make a difference in another persons life.  To help them learn and grow and to see all the potential inthemselves that others see to me is love. and that can be anyone from a parent to a child. Beside bringing life into this world i think loving and being loved is important. teaching others right from worng is struggle but a struggle worth taking.  Without hate there can be no love but just because you don't like something doesn't give you the right to bring prejudice and malice against someone. Voice your opinon but don't force people to listen. those who want to hear must have a choice if not then you bring violence on yourself and others. CHOICE IS THE KEY FOR HAPPINESS!!!!!!!! LOVE YOURSELF LOVE OTHERS!!!!!!!!